“Don’t let male friends bathe in your house” – Woman raises alarm over alleged ‘destiny exchange’
A Nigerian woman has stirred reactions online after warning men to be careful about certain male friends who visit their homes.
According to her, some men now allegedly use strange methods to “exchange destinies,” especially by asking to bathe in another person’s house or sleep on their bed.
In her words, she said:
“If you’re a man and you have male friends who usually visit your house, if they come with soap to bathe in your bathroom, don’t let them bathe in your house. No gree at all.”
She further claimed that allowing such friends to use personal spaces in the house could allegedly affect a person’s progress and finances.
The woman advised men to avoid allowing male friends sleep on their beds, insisting that things may begin to go wrong financially afterward.
“Don’t let him sleep on your bed. That’s what they use in exchanging boys’ destiny now. If you are making money before, things will begin to fall apart. You go dey work and work, money no go come,” she said.
Her statement has generated mixed reactions on social media. While some people agreed with her warning and shared similar beliefs, others dismissed the claims as superstition.
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“As a man, if your male friend comes to your house and insists on using your bathroom or sleeping on your bed, don’t allow him.”
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— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) May 9, 2026