“If your girlfriend depends on you, break her heart” — pastor advises men
A viral video showing a pastor advising men on relationships has sparked widespread reactions online, after he urged church members to end relationships with financially dependent girlfriends.
In the clip, the pastor was seen addressing a congregation, making strong remarks about women who rely on their partners for financial support in everyday needs.
The video has since circulated widely on social media, drawing mixed opinions from viewers.
Pastor’s comments on financial dependence spark debate
During the sermon, the pastor argued that some relationships place too much financial burden on men, insisting that such relationships should be ended immediately. His comments, delivered in a direct tone, quickly caught attention online.
He said:
“If you are here, eh, you have any woman, before she do her hair, she depends on you. You have a girl that you are dating, before she pay her house rent, she depends on you. Her phone, you, SIM card, you.
She don’t bring any value in your life. After this meeting, break her heart. Are you hearing me now? The woman, she depends on you in everything.
She didn’t bring any gain, no gain, no profit to your life. Her panty, bras, wear anything bag, it’s you. Please, after this meeting, serve her breakfast.
You don’t need that kind of woman. See, women are supporters. If she’s not supporting you, break her heart.
I give you certificate to break her heart.”
Watch the video here….
“If your girlfriend does not support you in any way but always demands from you, break her heart immediately” — Nigerian pastor tells male church members pic.twitter.com/mLsskgnvXn
— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) May 15, 2026