“At 40, if you don’t have a house, car or family, you can never make it in life” – Lady says
A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her strong opinion about age, success, and life achievements.
According to her, men who reach the age of 40 without owning a house, car, or having a family may have failed to achieve success in life.
In her words, she said:
“If at the age of 40 years, you don’t have a house of your own, no car, no business of your own, no wife, no children or even a girlfriend, let me tell you the fact, you’re not a man and you can never make it in life.”
She further stated that people in such a situation may struggle to turn their lives around and should accept their reality.
The lady also suggested that individuals who find themselves in that position should return to their family home instead of chasing unrealistic dreams.
“If I were you, I will go back to my father’s house and be doing ‘Mama Thank you’ because you can never make it again in life,” she added.
Her statement has generated mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her while others strongly disagreed, saying success has no fixed timeline.
One user wrote, “Not everyone follows the same timeline in life. Abeeg rest.” Another added, “Una don start again? All the beer parlor women geng.”
Watch the video below…
If you’ve 40 years old, no wife no children no business no establishment,” you will never make it again in this life
— lady pic.twitter.com/R08xRyvYON
— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) May 24, 2026