“Telling a man you have a boyfriend sound very foolish” — Lady advises women
A lady has stirred widespread reactions on social media after sharing controversial relationship advice in a viral video, urging unmarried women not to disclose that they have boyfriends when meeting new men.
In the video, she argued that being in a relationship does not mean a woman belongs to anyone until she is legally married, insisting that revealing the existence of a boyfriend could prevent her from meeting her future husband.
Lady advises single women to keep relationship status private
According to the lady, unmarried women should continue meeting potential partners until they eventually get married.
“As long as you are not married, you belong to no one. Meeting a man and telling him you have a boyfriend sounds very foolish of you. I mean, why would you do that?”
She further claimed that women should not allow a boyfriend to stop them from meeting someone who could eventually become their husband.
“If you’re not married, do not allow your boyfriend to stop you from meeting your future husband. Attend all date until you are finally taken to the altar.”
Claims spark mixed reactions online
The speaker also criticised what she described as the growing acceptance of casual relationships, arguing that some dating behaviours have become normalised among young people.
She said:
“Girl to girl, don’t ever tell that man that you just met that you have a boyfriend. Why would you tell someone that you’re in a relationship? This is a potential husband.”
She went on to suggest that such behaviour could lead to multiple relationships over time, making further controversial remarks about “body counts” and prostitution.
Watch the video here…
"As long as you're not married, you don't belong to anyone. Meeting a man and telling him you have a boyfriend is føølish. If you're not married, don't let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your future husband."
— Lady insists. pic.twitter.com/FTgQ4Qt2dp
— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) July 15, 2026