A Nigerian man with the handle @MrOdanz on Twitter has shared his opinion on why he thinks men don’t like receiving gifts from women in a romantic relationship.
The young man said that women taunt men with material things they gave out in a romantic relationship when things go south.
“Dozens of Igbo men have sponsored the life and education of women they want to marry till graduation. Most of them get dumped at the end of their sacrifice.They drink it down with beer, wail to their friends and move on You don’t see them crying for help and harassing their Ex
Some men even rented houses for their Exes, fund their lives and the lives of all their family members. Sometimes in expectation for nothing. When things don’t work out, they pack up and leave in dignity. No drama, no emotional blackmail, no victimhood Olympics
But it is the SUPERIOR GENDER that will go beserk if they spend 10 Naira on you and it later doesn’t end up in marriage. They’d tell the story to the whole world, they’d haunt you, they will curse, they will harass. If there is a way to destroy you, they’d jump at it.
Right there is a reason why men don’t exactly like taking gifts from women. They’d prefer to be the ones giving. Because things can go south and they’d go about talking about how “I MADE HIM, I FED HIM, I CLOTHED HIM, I GAVE HIM AIR.”
If you know you are giving your lover any gifts or money in expectation for something, please put it into a written agreement so we know you are mad. Coming back to haunt the person after things go South is outrightly wrong and evil. Women indeed need to do better with that.”