“I said no billing, no knacking” – Lady shares man’s shocking response to her relationship demand
A Nigerian lady has recounted her encounter with a man who had been asking her out for months, revealing how he rejected her conditions for starting a relationship.
According to her, she made it clear that she wanted a genuine relationship and was not interested in being billed or getting intimate immediately after they started dating.
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She explained that she told the man she was financially independent and would not ask him for money, adding that she wanted them to build a genuine relationship for between eight months and one year before taking things further.
In her words
“I told this guy, okay, I will not bill you, I’m working. No billing. And I don’t want any knacking relationship. I want the first few months of the relationship to be a genuine relationship for like eight months to one year. No billing, no knacking.”
However, the man reportedly told her that he could never date a woman he would not be intimate with immediately after they became a couple.
The lady revealed that despite assuring him she would not ask him for money, he still rejected the relationship because she was unwilling to become intimate with him.
She further disclosed that the man told her she could only ask him for money when he had it and would have to understand when he did not.
“He said he can never date a girl that he will not be sleeping with. I said no billing, but he still said he can never date me. I said, okay, that means I’ll be free to be billing you. He said it is only when he has the money I can ask, and if he doesn’t, I have to understand.”
The lady questioned why the man expected her to understand his financial limitations while refusing to respect her decision about intimacy.
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What kind of condition is this? 🤦🏽♂️ pic.twitter.com/fFUH2UTs6j
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) September 7, 2026