Abroad-Based Nigerian speaks on emotional cost of living outside Nigeria

A Nigerian identified as Salako has sparked conversations online after sharing an emotional reflection on the sacrifices and loneliness many people in the diaspora experience while living abroad.

In a lengthy post, Salako questioned the assumption that Nigerians abroad are automatically happier because of improved living conditions and opportunities.

He reflected on the emotional distance from family members, childhood memories, and communal experiences that shaped his upbringing in Nigeria.

Recalling moments spent with relatives, weekend outings to eateries, family gatherings during festive periods, and the close-knit social life common in many Nigerian communities, he lamented that such experiences may not be replicated for future generations raised abroad.

Salako also spoke about the frustrations that push many Nigerians to leave the country, including insecurity, weak institutions, concerns about justice, and economic hardship.

According to him, many people in the diaspora would prefer to live and thrive in Nigeria if the environment provided safety, stability, and genuine opportunities.

While expressing gratitude for the opportunities he has found overseas, he admitted that material comfort has not replaced the emotional connection and sense of belonging he associates with home.

He maintained that beyond success and comfort, he hopes to live, and eventually die, with a sense of “soul” rooted in community and identity.

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