“You should be carrying a child not balloon” – Lady drags her friend as she celebrates wedding anniversary

A Nigerian lady has recounted how a close friend humiliated her over childlessness during the celebration of her 3rd wedding anniversary.

The lady in question had taken to her social media page to share a 3rd wedding-anniversary photoshoot with her husband as they both held a balloon in the shape of number 3.

According to her, a close friend took to the comment session to humiliate her for holding a balloon instead of a child of their own.

Read her full story below …

“I got married on my birthday 6 years ago. So its always a holiday literally in our home… yeah great stuff but I have a story. Stay with me

I posted this picture as per felicitations on MY BIRTHDAY, ON MY PAGE and a ‘friend’ (at that time) sends a message.

This was the message…
Happy Birthday Kiki. Wishing you many more wins. This is coming from a place of love, dont you think its embarrassing that for your 3rd year anniversary you are making your husband carry a balloon when he should be carrying his child/children? This should be more of a reflection so I believe in times like this, have wisdom so your enemies will not rejoice over you. Xoxo

 

I kept that message. I laughed. I clapped. I ‘Heheheddd , I folded my hands put them on my head. It was s000 many feelings I couldn’t express.

For me it was just a picture. I was celebrating a healthy marriage & a happy birthday. I was genuinely in a happy place. I truly evaluated where my mind was and the smile on this picture was for me. I was honestly thankful for the amazing life I have.

My Life wasnt & still isnt perfect, but it is mine. I dnt deserve that message & in my heart I knew I had lost a friend.
I never deleted that message TILL TODAY. I had transferred that same screenshot from BlackBerry, to Samsung to iPhone to Eternally VEX

It wasnt worth it. Which of God’s mercies can I deny? None!!!!
I’m shedding weight in my life I’m decluttering. 2020 has been heavy but unforgettable in amazing ways.

I have been cleaning house, work, closet, everything except my heart.
That’s where the hard work is… If 2020 taught us anything… Its definitely that there is no time for ‘IRANU’ & no one and nothing should have enough power to hold your Joy Ransom!”