“You can never tell a woman’s body count, men stop acting smart” Lady says

A popular social media commentator has sparked discussion about the significance of a woman’s “body count,” arguing that men often overemphasise the number of past sexual partners.

She explained that asking a woman how many sexual partners she has had is often pointless, as there is no reliable way to verify the information.

“Whether a woman tells you her body count is 1, 2, or 30, how do you expect to know the truth? The number of men a woman has been with does not affect her body physically,” she said.

According to her, such questions only reflect men’s insecurity or misguided curiosity rather than any factual concern.

She further noted that many men expect to judge women based on whether they report a high or low number of past partners, but the reality is that a woman’s sexual history does not define her value, personality, or character.

Understanding the female anatomy

The commentator also highlighted the biological aspect, explaining that the female body is resilient. “The vagina consists of muscles that can contract and relax, much like how a man’s muscles work. This means that a woman’s body returns to its normal shape regardless of how many sexual partners she has had,” she said.

She added that even women who have given birth to multiple children can regain elasticity through certain exercises.

Furthermore, she clarified that virginity should not be measured solely by the presence or absence of bleeding during first-time intercourse, noting that many virgins do not bleed, and some women may have had sexual experiences without leaving visible signs.

“This is why some men foolishly brag about ‘disvirgining’ a girl, when they could very well be the ninth man she’s been with,” she added, stressing that assumptions about sexual history are often misleading.

Social media reactions

The post has triggered lively discussion on social media. Users shared a mix of amusement, criticism, and advice:

Igrindnonstop: “Women lie about body count more than men lie about money.”

Maestroroy: “This woman thinks she’s gaslighting men but what she’s actually doing is telling players they’re right to be players. Because in the end why bother?”

Xdealsgadgets: “And this is why you should marry a virgin. You can date non-virgins for purely sexual reasons. Just enjoy yourself and move on. But if marriage is your end goal, then virgin should be your go-to.”

Seunspace: “If I didn’t meet her as a virgin, her body count to me is 10, where can be any number between 1 and 100. As long as you didn’t meet her a virgin, her body count is whatever she tells you it is. It’s always best to assume the worst, but hope she’s not damaged beyond repair.”

The conversation continues to divide opinion online, with many agreeing that the focus should be on respect, trust, and compatibility rather than past sexual history.

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