“You and man no be the same” – Lady advises women, sparks reactions online
A lady has sparked reactions online after sharing candid advice to women about age, marriage, and societal realities.
Age Perceptions Differ for Men and Women
In a video trending on social media, she addressed young women, pointing out that society treats men and women very differently when it comes to relationships.
She stated that a man can be 50 and marry a 19-year-old lady without judgment, while women often feel pressured to appear younger than they are.
Stop Comparing Yourself to Men
She urged women to stop comparing themselves to men and make wise decisions about relationships rather than competing with or measuring themselves against men.
In her words: “Listen girls, a man at 50 who has never been married before can get even a 19 years old small girl to marry. But you as a girl, just clock 28 small, you go begin to dey reduce your age, dey reduce your age, dey reduce your age. Wetin that thing tell you, say you and man not be the same, not be everything I go to tell you, be guided…”
See below;
No be everything we go dey tell you !! Use your head ! pic.twitter.com/qYNPSICHVA
— AFRICAMUSTBEFREE!!!!!!! (@engrICO2015) March 18, 2026