“Why you shouldn’t ask me about the number of people I’ve slept with” – Tolani Baj

Big Brother Naija star Tolani Baj has disclosed why it is inappropriate to inquire about a woman’s body count from her or any other woman.

A person’s “body count” is the number of individuals they have shared a bed with. This generally refers to sexual contact; other forms of sexual activity are not included.

According to Tolani Baj, asking women about their past sexual experiences is impolite.

Despite her low body count, she said she didn’t think it was appropriate to ask a woman about her body count.

"Why you shouldn’t ask me about the number of people I’ve slept with" – Tolani Baj
Tolani Baj, BBNaija realty star. Photo source: Instagram

Tolani Baj made this comment in the most recent episode of the Bahd and Boujee Podcast, which was hosted by reality star and media personality Moet Abebe. On the other hand, she thought it was OK to inquire about a partner’s past relationships.

Tolani Baj said:

“If a partner asks me about my exes or relationship history, I’m okay. But something I won’t answer is body count. I feel like, ‘What’s really your business?’

“My body count is not high but I still feel like it’s disrespectful to ask a woman about her body count. It’s not because I’m ashamed to say the amount, it’s just like, ‘Who do you think you’re to be asking me that kind of question?’