“Why finding love in Lagos is hard” – BNXN opens up on relationship struggles

Nigerian singer, Daniel Etiese Benson widely known as BNXN, has opened up about the emotional challenges he faces when it comes to love, especially in Lagos.

The “Finesse” hitmaker shared his frustrations on his X (formerly Twitter) account, expressing how difficult relationships have been for him.

In his words, he said: “To find love for Eko too hard for me o.”

His post immediately sparked reactions, as fans recalled the controversies surrounding his past relationships. Many still remember his situation with alleged Swedish ex-girlfriend, Filma Jones, in 2022.

The relationship dominated social media after Jones accused him of impregnating and abandoning her. She went as far as leaking his nude photos online to prove their intimacy.

BNXN later admitted that the incident caused him emotional heartbreak, revealing it was the first time he experienced such pain.

He also shared another disturbing experience involving a different woman who attempted to blackmail him with a fake pregnancy after a one-night stand.

These experiences explain why love has not come easy for the singer, especially in a fast-paced city like Lagos.

Following his recent post, fans flooded his timeline with messages of support, jokes, and advice. Many sympathized with him, while others claimed that dating in Lagos is a struggle for everyone, not just celebrities.