“We don’t like soft men. We like toxic men who shout on us” — Lady reveals type of men girls want
A lady has sparked conversation online after revealing what type of men she believes women are truly attracted to.
According to her, the dynamics of love and attraction have been often misunderstood by the male gender.
Lady says women don’t like soft men. We like fighting for love
She explained, “Ladies don’t like soft men. We don’t love calm men. We love toxic men. We come to realize that when a man is too soft, it looks as if the relationship, the marriage will spoil. But when a man has a sprinkle of toxicity, that’s when the love comes out.
The lady reveals that ladies love fighting for love so when there’s nothing to fight about, they don’t like it.
The post, which has gone viral, prompted mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with her views on passion and attraction, while others criticised the idea that conflict fuels love.
Social media reactions:
@HeartOfNaija commented: “Soft men are underrated tho, real respect and care is love too.”
@ChillVibesOnly wrote: “Some women just love drama, but that’s not healthy for anyone.”
@TonyGentleman reacted: “Honestly, being calm doesn’t mean you’re boring. Don’t fall for the hype.”
@NaijaRealTalk said: “Fighting for love is okay in movies, not in real life relationships.”
Watch the video below…
“We Say We love Soft and calm men but we lied because 80% Nigeria girls love toxic men.” ~~ Lady reveal the type of guys all ladies truly want pic.twitter.com/DoxtOwarQq
— Chief Ozo🌠 (@Ozorbig1) February 1, 2026
