“To be a man is crazy, you have to be a millionaire to date a poor girl” — Lady says
A viral video has sparked widespread reactions online after a lady shared her views on modern dating expectations and financial pressure on men.
In the trending clip, she argued that relationships have become heavily influenced by money, lifestyle, and social status, especially for men seeking partners.
Debate Over Modern Dating Expectations
According to her, the pressure placed on men in relationships today is overwhelming and often unrealistic for many ordinary earners.
She said: “To be a man in this era is crazy. You have to be a millionaire to date a poor girl. You have to have your own house to date a girl who is still renting in a slum.
You have to have your own car to date a girl who doesn’t even have a bike, a bicycle. You have to be a decent man, a man who doesn’t cheat to date a whore.
Excuse my word, but that is the truth. You have to have your own business to date a girl who is doing nothing. They don’t want men who work like 8 to 5, no.
Okay, a man who is a salary earner, no, they don’t want that anymore. Look, you have to come from money to date a girl from a poor background.
You have to have it all just to date a girl who has nothing to offer. Isn’t it difficult? It’s very difficult to be a man these days. If you don’t have all this, they disrespect you.
They look down on you. It’s crazy. Please, if you are a man… And you don’t have money, dating is difficult, dating will be very difficult for you. It’s crazy out there.”
Watch the video here…
This is for the simp guys with low self-esteem looking for validation from women. Most real men nowadays don’t care what women want. pic.twitter.com/PPB9x89RBJ
— CHIGO (@iamChigoo) March 25, 2026