“She helped me when i was homeless, now she wants to stay in my house” — Lady shares dilemma

A lady has sparked conversation online after sharing a dilemma involving a long-time friend who once offered her shelter during a period of financial hardship.

A friend in need

The woman revealed that she lived in her friend’s house for two years, managing all cooking and cleaning tasks, while her friend, accustomed to hiring domestic help, contributed little to household chores.

Now financially stable and residing in a different state, she has been supporting her friend after the latter lost a substantial amount of money in a scam investment.

Despite her continued assistance, the friend recently asked to stay temporarily in her house until she recovers financially.

Past sacrifices and current concerns

The woman, however, is concerned about the potential for stress and resentment, knowing her friend is not accustomed to doing chores.

“I handled all the cleaning and cooking when I was staying in her house for free, without complaining, because she was my friend and I had no other place. Now, I’m worried that if I let her stay here, I’ll end up stressed in my own home.”

She seeks advice on whether to accommodate her friend despite the potential challenges or to refuse to protect her peace, highlighting the delicate balance between generosity and self-care in friendships.

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