“Only bread oo” – Lady shares viral story of guy asking if she was a ‘man’ after she gave him a gift

A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to share a surprising encounter with a man she visited, sparking reactions online.
A Simple Gesture During Visitation
The lady, identified on X (formerly Twitter) as @Choice_Defi, recounted how she visited a man she knew and decided to give him a small gift, just bread.
A Surprising Reaction
The man was reportedly shocked by the gesture and could hardly believe that a girl would give him anything at all.
He reportedly asked her if she was a man, expressing disbelief that a girl had ever bought or gifted him anything before.
Lady Reflects on Nigerian Relationships
Using the experience, she highlighted what she perceives as a common trend in relationships in Nigeria, suggesting that many men have never received gifts from women.
In her words:
“The day I knew relationships in Nigeria are cooked was when I visited this guy and I bought him bread, only bread oo. He was very surprised and asked if I was a man and that no girl has ever given or bought him something before. I’m sure this is the same for most guys too. No girl has gifted them anything in their lives before.”
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