“Once you’re 25, time is not fully on your side” — Man advises young ladies
A social media post by a Nigerian man has stirred widespread discussion after he shared blunt relationship advice directed at young women.
The message, posted on X (formerly Twitter), quickly gained attention for its direct tone and traditional views on love, marriage, and timing.
In the post, the man urged women in their mid-twenties to take romantic relationships more seriously, warning against treating them as casual experiences for too long.
“Time Is Not Fully on Your Side”
According to him, once a woman turns 25, relationship decisions should be made with clearer intentions.
He argued that delaying commitment until the late twenties or early thirties may reduce relationship options and create emotional pressure.
The writer claimed that some men take advantage of women who feel rushed to settle down later in life.
While acknowledging that many women say marriage is not a priority, he insisted that, deep down, most still desire it.
Career Growth Should Not Cancel Love
The man encouraged young women to pursue education, careers, and businesses without neglecting genuine relationships.
He advised them to remain open when they meet a serious and promising partner instead of postponing commitment indefinitely.
He stressed that building a future should involve both personal growth and emotional partnership.
Waiting too long, he said, could mean overlooking people with sincere intentions.
Cooking Comment Draws Mixed Reactions
One of the most controversial parts of the post focused on domestic expectations.
He criticised the popular phrase, “I won’t cook for a man until we’re married,” calling it a major concern for serious men.
According to him, many men see such boundaries as risky and unwelcoming.
He clarified that women do not need to overdo the “girlfriend role,” but warned against appearing completely hostile.
Respect as a Man’s Love Language
The post also touched on emotional dynamics in relationships.
The writer claimed that respect matters more to men than verbal expressions of love.
“I love you” alone, he suggested, is not enough without genuine respect and support.
He added that women should value men who are responsible, hardworking, and future-focused.
The post ended with a call to faith, urging women to “love God above all.”
