“Oga, she no lose anything” — Technician reveals ex mother rejected him, lady married a politician instead
A Lagos technician recently shared a story about his past relationship and how societal perceptions of profession and status affected his personal life.
He revealed that his ex-girlfriend’s mother refused to let her marry him because he was considered “an ordinary technician,” despite his success and responsible parenting.
Professional success overlooked
During a casual conversation with a client while fixing an air conditioner, the technician described how he has been providing for his two children, ensuring they attend a good school and are well cared for.
The client encouraged him, suggesting that his ex’s family had lost out on a good man.
Unexpected twist
The technician, however, delivered an unexpected twist: “Oga, she no lose anything o, I hear say na politician she marry.”
His comment highlighted how family expectations and societal status often influence marriage choices, sometimes prioritising wealth and connections over personal compatibility and character.
Lessons on love and social expectations
The conversation sparked reflections on the pressures many face when choosing partners, particularly the tension between social expectations, profession, and genuine personal connection.
Many note that such stories shed light on the sometimes harsh realities of love and social hierarchy in modern Nigeria.
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