“Nowadays, you need money to become member of your own family” – Man sparks debate
A man has sparked widespread reactions on social media after claiming that money now determines acceptance, even within families.
In a post shared on X, formerly Twitter, the man, identified as Lawrence Kitema, expressed frustration over what he described as growing cruelty towards poor people.
“Money Now Defines Belonging”
Kitema lamented that financial status has become a measure of worth, even among relatives who should offer unconditional support.
“Nowadays, you need money to become a member of your own family. This world is so cruel to the poor,” he wrote.
His statement quickly gained attention, with many users agreeing and sharing personal experiences of similar treatment.
Netizens React to Kitema’s Claim
Several social media users responded with emotional and thought-provoking comments, reflecting on how money affects family relationships.
Esperanza wrote: “In a world that appraises your worth by your wallet, remember that God appraises you by your soul. Poverty is a circumstance, not a character flaw…”
JP Attueyi said: “It should not be so. Some families can’t have meeting if the rich one is not available. What the rich one says is what everyone must do.”
Aditi added: “Yeah, that feeling hits hard when even family starts treating love like a paid subscription. The cruelty isn’t new, just more shameless now.”
Money as Power and Survival Tool
Other users highlighted how financial strength often translates to influence, protection, and independence.
Ken wrote: “Accept it or not, but it’s a reality. Sometimes, you need money to become a family member in your family. You need money to walk away from the situations you don’t like. You need money as a weapon and defence to challenges in life.”
Praveen shared a similar view, saying: “When survival becomes expensive, love gets conditional and presence gets measured in money. The poor are not lacking character or effort, they are punished for circumstances.”
PapiSpit added humour to the discussion, writing: “Sad but funny because it’s true 😂 These days love got a cover charge and Thanksgiving feels like a shareholders meeting. Being broke turns you into a ‘distant relative’ real quick. That’s why I joke but I also get it. Money doesn’t buy love… it just buys you a seat at the table.”
The discussion continues to spark debate, with many reflecting on how financial pressure is reshaping family bonds and social values.
