“Na only to born I come?” – Woman cries out after 14 years of marriage, says no achievement
A married woman has sparked reactions online after opening up about her frustration with her life and marriage.
In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she revealed that while standing in front of a mirror reflecting on her journey, she realized that this year marks 14 years of marriage.
What struck her the most, however, was what she described as her only “achievement.”
In her words, she said:
“Have been looking at myself in the mirror and thinking about my life, this year makes it my 14 years in marriage. Guy, let me tell you what achievement I have achieved, na 6 children. Na 6 children be my achievement in 14 years in marriage.
This thing is really annoying me. Abi na only to born, born, born I come for this marriage to do? The thing just dey vex me one kind.”
Her emotional outburst has since generated mixed reactions, with many women relating to her feelings while others encouraged her to redefine what success means.
One user wrote, “Six children is not a small achievement madam, everything is not money.” Another added, “Some women silently feel this way but won’t talk.”
The post has reopened conversations about identity, purpose, and the pressure many women face in long marriages.
Watch video below…
“This is my 14 years in marriage and my only achievement is 6 children. I’m not happy.”
— Lady laments. pic.twitter.com/f2sMvOftuv
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) March 3, 2026