“My talking stage blocked me because I asked if he had any criminal record” — Lady
A young Lady has sparked online discussion after revealing how a brief talking stage ended abruptly following a series of personal questions she asked a potential partner.
The Lady said they had been talking for about five days when she began asking questions she considered important for her future.
She explained that the discussion had already become serious, as the man spoke openly about marriage.
“I was just asking him that ‘do you have any criminal record, or are you on any medication presently. Do your family have any illness?’” she said.
She noted that her intention was not to offend him but to protect herself from future regret. “I’m just asking for my own sake,” she explained.
“The way you are being so serious during the talking stage, you are saying you want to marry me.”
According to her, the man reacted negatively and questioned why she was asking such things. “He was like, ‘why should I be asking him all these questions, these questions are weird,’” she recalled.
The woman said she tried to calm the situation and explain her reasoning. “I need to get to know so that I know the type of family I’m bringing kids to,” she said. “I don’t want a situation where my kids will blame me in the future.”
She also revealed that her past experiences influenced her caution. “I am already having a lot that I’m blaming myself for and I’m atoning for,” she added. “So I don’t want any other issues.”
The situation reportedly escalated when the man accused her of asking too many questions and mocked her background. “He said my own too much, how many school I go where I just dey ask ask ask,” she said.
Shortly after the exchange, the man blocked her, effectively ending the talking stage.
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“My talking stage just blocked me because I asked him if he has any criminal records, if he’s on medication presently and if his family have any illness.”
— Lady says. 😭 pic.twitter.com/lMfPrqhEuq
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) February 6, 2026
