“My cousin is going to court tomorrow to file for divorce, and honestly, I’m happy for her” — Lady
A Nigerian woman’s decision to end her marriage has stirred mixed reactions online after her cousin shared the story online.
In the viral post, the lady revealed that her cousin is set to file for divorce, expressing happiness over what she described as a long-overdue decision.
According to her, the marriage had been one-sided for years, with the woman reportedly bearing most of the financial and domestic responsibilities.
A Marriage Marked by Imbalance
The cousin narrated that the woman paid rent, handled children’s school fees, and managed the household, despite her husband also being employed.
She claimed the man contributed little, adding that there were times he would cook and eat without leaving food for his wife.
She further disclosed that she had advised her cousin to leave the marriage three years ago, but family intervention at the time led to reconciliation. However, the situation reportedly did not improve.
Now, with the decision made, the woman has chosen to move on quietly. When asked what influenced her final decision, she simply responded, “Don’t worry about it,” suggesting a deeply personal turning point.
Social Media Users Divided
The story quickly gained traction online, with users sharing differing opinions about the situation.
Dammy Esquire wrote: “Sometimes the hardest step is choosing yourself after carrying too much for too long. Peace of mind matters, and no one should bear a marriage alone. It’s good she found the strength to make that decision, quietly and for her own well being.”
However, not everyone agreed with the decision.
Adedoyin wrote: “How will you be happy your cousin is filing for a divorce. Infct, I expect you to calm her and tell her everything will be alright. So after 2or 3children,is she going to remarry again or what.
Some decisions are better not made for one’s sanity. We never can tell why the man is acting like that towards the house provision but have you make any attempt to meet with the husand too?”
Dr OAK questioned the dynamics of the relationship, writing: “For years, she carried the whole marriage on her shoulders; paid the rent, handled the kids’ school fees, took care of the house and everything.
Meanwhile, her husband, who’s working too, barely contributed. What type of partner did she marry cos I don’t want to understand this?”
Dadidi added: “Wow… I’m really glad she’s taking this step. It takes so much courage to recognize your own worth and finally act on it, especially after carrying so much for so long.”
