“Men, stop waiting till you have enough money, marry first!” — Pastor slams christian men for avoiding marriage
A pastor has condemned men who refuse to marry, warning that their inaction is forcing Christian women to marry outside their faith.
The cleric noted that the trend has serious implications for the church and future generations.
Men’s neglect forces christian women to marry outside faith
Speaking in a recent sermon, the pastor said: “I realized that your counterpart, they’re marrying. And guess who they are getting married to? The Christian girls! Why? Because you men do not want to marry. So should the girls kill themselves? It has to be said. If lesbianism were a Christian concept, men, you would not see wives.”
She continued, expressing concern about interfaith marriages and the influence on children.
According to her, “Thesr men are coming from outside to marry them. That’s why you’ll hear Christian girls saying things like, ‘he’s very nice.’ This is happening because men refuse to step up. Some girls even plan to divorce after having children. You do not understand the damage that has been done because you choose to sit there until you die. You think you are the provider of the home. But there were girls before you came; were they not surviving?”
Pastor warns on consequences for families and church
The pastor further warned against compromising religious values in marriage as she urged men to take responsibility for marriage and family life.
“What they are doing now is marrying the girls, having children, and Islamizing them. If you are a Christian, we don’t crossbreed in this kingdom. God said it’s not good for a man to be alone—don’t force people to marry.”
She also urged men to take responsibility in relationships, highlighting the consequences of inaction on the church and society
“Be fruitful and multiply. Why not? When you say be fruitful and multiply, it’s children. How do you replenish the earth?”
The message serves as a call for men to step up, honour commitments, and support the spiritual and social wellbeing of their communities.
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Getting married right and raising godly seeds is a kingdom strategy. pic.twitter.com/dWcXK4eQfl— Philip Olubakin (@philipolubakin) January 20, 2026
