Man raises alarm over influential Abuja men allegedly approaching men for romantic relationships
A Nigerian man has raised alarm over influential men who, according to him, approach other men in Abuja for romantic relationships.
In a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), he warned men against dismissing such approaches, claiming that some of these individuals may use different tactics to manipulate those who reject them.
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In his words, he said:
“As a man in Abuja, if a man has never asked you out, bro, you’ve not hustle. Don’t ever make mouth like, ‘God forbid, Tufiakwa, never me.’ Pray.
Those people are not ordinary. Sometimes they might be tempting. One way or the other, they will manipulate you, or if that doesn’t work, once you eat or collect something from them, they’ve already brainwashed you,” he said.
Identifying himself as a Fulani/Hausa man, he insisted that such encounters are real and urged men to be cautious when dealing with influential individuals.
He also warned against confronting or fighting such people, stressing the importance of keeping evidence of any interaction.
“To those of you that will say, ‘Hand never touch person father?’ Person wey you go beat, the truth is there are some people you can’t touch.
Whatever you do, let there be evidence, because they won’t leave a single trace. And if you don’t have any, they will make sure you land in Kuje Prison,” he added.
His remarks have generated reactions online, with some social media users questioning the claims while others discussed the risks of rejecting advances from powerful individuals.
The man’s warning has drawn attention to his claims about influential men allegedly approaching other men in Abuja.
Watch the video below…
This Is Happening In Abuja…👀 pic.twitter.com/OHzheP7f4q
— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) September 22, 2026