Man advises women to invest in their partners
A man has stirred controversy on social media after sharing his views on how young women should approach relationships and marriage.
In a video making the rounds online, he advised women to “invest” in men, especially during difficult periods in their lives.
According to him, supporting a man when he is struggling could influence future commitment, as such gestures are often remembered.
He went further to suggest that women should not be overly restrictive with their finances or affection, arguing that such “investments” could yield long-term benefits, even if marriage does not eventually happen.
His words …
“As a girl, as a young girl that want to marry, learn how to invest for where men dey. Forget all this, my money, I can’t spend my money on man. No. Some girls, they from back, they spend on their man, you no go no. Don’t be papa mumu, I be mama mumu. Learn how to invest for where guy day. That time way him broke. Anything wey you do am most of them, they no they easily forget them. Na him make you go see some people who say, ah, why you go marry this kind of person? Because na that person hold them when life they treat them anyhow. Do you understand? Not that person tolerate them. Not that person they show them, you know, love. Learn how to invest for where man dey. No br all of them go leave you. Even unto kn”acking. You can use s£*x invest for future. Just give. Because they know who go make him in future. Most women they know, say this one, him go get am clear. If you invest, maybe you know they normal, you know say him dey get am clear. Invest, they give him opu£h sometimes. So that in future, even if him don’t marry you, e fit they remember you, don’t be stingy. Especially all those our sisters where they UK, all of dem stingy. They stingy for money, they stingy for down below. But as a young girl, I tell you, don’t be too stingy. Invest financially and, you know, in all ramification, just invest. No time.”
Watch video below …
“Ladies, learn to invest in a man if you want to get married. When your man has nothing, support him, he will never forget you when he makes it in life.”
— Man advises women. pic.twitter.com/qCYcKsnoqK
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) March 16, 2026