Lady seeks advise as she sets to dump man who catered for her and her child to be with ex that abandoned them for five years

Young lady left in a dilemma as she set to abandon a man who provided for her and her child for years to be with the man that dumped her.

According to an anonymous sought for advice shared through an online platform, the lady was dumped by her boyfriend for a trip to America when she was two months pregnant with his child.

Five years have gone by since another man took care of her and her child only for her former boyfriend to return with promises of taking her with him to the United States of America.

Read the full narration below …

“I was dating a guy, when I got pregnant his parents forced him to deny the pregnancy then they sent him to the United States leaving me with the pregnancy.

2 months later I met a guy who decided to be with me even though I was pregnant with someone else. He supported me right through birth. After giving birth, he enrolled me in a training center and paid for it all.

It’s been 5 years since we’ve been together. My whole family knows him, he plans to gift me in 3 months. But the problem is my baby daddy is back. He has apologized to me and is ready to take me back with his child.

I confess I’m still in love with him, he might take me to the states with him, this is an opportunity for me. I want to go back with him but I’m afraid to hurt the other.

How do you make him understand that he doesn’t feel betrayed and hurt? It’s true that he made a lot of sacrifices for me, but I must not be a hypocrite towards him, because in my heart he is not my kind.”