Lady questions men who spend on girlfriends while neglecting their sisters
A lady has questioned the priorities of some men who lavish expensive gifts on their girlfriends while allegedly neglecting their own sisters.
In a widely shared statement, the woman expressed concern over situations where a man reportedly buys luxury items such as expensive human hair, fashionable clothing, and the latest iPhone models for his girlfriend, while his sisters, whom she described as grown adults, continue to struggle with basic phones and synthetic hair.
According to her, the issue is not about condemning the sisters’ circumstances but about the imbalance in care and responsibility.
She noted that such behaviour should be a red flag, especially when the man’s mother is alive and his sisters appear unsupported.
The lady questioned whether it is “normal” for a man to invest heavily in a romantic partner while seemingly ignoring the welfare of his immediate family, suggesting that it raises concerns about values, priorities, and long-term character.
She said …
“If some of you are not crazy, tell me why your boyfriend has sisters, has like grown up sisters and has his mother. His mother is still alive. Buys you bone straight, pixie coat, different type of beautiful human, 100% hair. And even upgrades your iPhone from one iPhone series to another. But you see his sisters, they are still struggling with Android. itel, Gionee. Wow, it’s not like I’m condemning this one. So, you know, they’re still struggling with, and they don’t even have any good hair. All your hair is synthetic. Grown-up girls though, but your brother doesn’t, I say your brother, your boyfriend doesn’t spend on them, but spends so much on you. Is that thing not supposed to scare you that? I don’t know how to put it. Well, it’s not normal. Like, normal. Do you get?”
Watch the video below …
You should be scared if your boyfriend upgrades your phones, buys you all kinds of hair, while his mother and sisters are still struggling. It’s not normal.” — Lady says pic.twitter.com/DQCw4yWmGs
— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) February 2, 2026
