Young lady narrates the heartbreaking story of her love life on how her first ever boyfriend infected her with HIV disease.
According to the Twitter user identified as @Zandie_V, she dated a young man who disflowered her for five years only to find out that he has children with three other women after the third year.
In her words;
“I am HIV positive!!!
2010 I dated a guy 6 years older than me, it was a long distance relationship but I still trusted him. The guy was working and I was doing my matric when we met. He was the first guy I had sex with and I was this honest gf. Problem is I trust too much.
I still do. I loved him with all my heart and he never gave me any reason not to trust him cz he would call, text or checkup on me everyday.We dated for 5 full years.
After 3 years of our relationship, I then heard rumours about him having 3 kids with different mothers😳. As trusting as I was, I never believed any of that until I saw pictures of them in his damn phone. I asked him about them.
As expected he lied straight to my face and I then threatened to breakup with him. By then he didn’t have a choice but to tell me the whole story about the 3 kids. Yes we broke up after but I still went back to him cz at that time I thought my life was nothing without him.
In 2016 I became sick just at the beginning of the year. My legs were swollen and I couldn’t walk. I went to different doctors but non of them new what was wrong with me. I drank both traditional and doctors medication but I still wasn’t getting better.
One day, my aunt suggested that I should see a dermatologist. They ran some tests and gave me meds to reduce the pain. After a week my results came back. Guess what? I had TB🙆. I was then advised to also test for HIV. And the results came positive🤔🤔.
As shocked as I was, i then called my then bf and told him about it. I expected him to support me, to get tested too cz he new how honest I was with him, He new that I only slept with him😭. Anyway he did the opposite, he insulted me, accused me of sleeping around😭💔
We then broke up. Few months later, he was hospitalized. He called and asked me to please visit him in hospital. I was angry with him, infact I hated him so I never visited him. Few weeks later he was back from hospital. We met and he apologized for blaming me for his actions🙄
Still I told him I was better off without him. Ever since then, my love life changed for the worst. I thought opening up to a new guy before we even start dating was gonna make things easier. No it didn’t for me cz most guys told me I am a poison and they can’t be with me.💔😭
Some guys pretended to accept me and appreciate my honesty only for them to give me stories after getting what they actually came for, sex. I’ve tried many times finding a partner but i guess dating isn’t for all of us. It’s time I accept my fate now and focus on better things😭
Perhaps I wasn’t meant to find love. People ask me why don’t I have a child at this age, truth is, It takes 2 to make kids. Sometimes I wanna give up on life in general but I still remind myself that I have a family that loves and care for me❤️
I’m done trying to find happiness in a man’s heart😭😭
This is my life!!!”