Lady laments: “finding husband is not easy”
A lady has sparked conversations online after openly lamenting the difficulties of finding a suitable husband, describing the process as exhausting and frustrating.
In a viral video, the lady listed the different types of men she has encountered, explaining that each seems to come with a major flaw that makes long-term commitment difficult.
Lady breaks down the challenges of modern dating
According to her, “You’ll see one, handsome, he’ll not have money. You’ll see the one that has money, no sense. You’ll see another one that you’ll think this is perfect for me, he’ll be short. You’ll see another one, ah this guy he’s so calm, handsome, once he opens his mouth like this, you’ll run away.” She added that some are fine but cannot dress well, while others are simply dirty, concluding that “to find husband is not easy.”
The lady’s honest breakdown of her experiences quickly resonated with many women who say they face similar challenges in today’s dating scene.
While some viewers sympathised with her frustration, others criticised her, accusing her of being too selective or blaming her for her situation.
The video has continued to generate debate across social media, with many users sharing their own experiences and opinions on marriage, standards, and modern relationships.
Social media reactions:
@miniTeevee: “U never ready be that. Dey play! Na menopause go teach u lessons u won’t learn in classes.”
@Donyibo: “How will it be easy when there is nothing left after tweking too much.”
@At_orangun: “Very hard ooo. May God help.”
@CITY_Ten9ty: “It is well.”
@aiktp_com: “Stay hopeful sis, love finds its way.”
@prince_dc21: “Yes it’s hard when you’re already getting old. Are you telling me that husband didn’t come when you were at your prime?”
@DrC_king: “Even footballers want to be coaches after retirement.”
@IRalph_official: “Ask her if na she go later pay for their groom price!”
Watch the video below…
To find husband no easy oh – lady laments pic.twitter.com/LKJainSWUm
— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) January 9, 2026
