Lady in dilemma as boyfriend’s close friend allegedly makes advances

A young woman shares her emotional struggle involving her boyfriend’s close friend and benefactor.

According to her account, the friend, who has played a significant role in helping her boyfriend secure a job, financial support, and accommodation, began showing unusual interest in her after they finally met.

She alleged that his behavior escalated from subtle compliments to more direct advances, including visiting her when her boyfriend was away and suggesting a private trip.

The situation has left her conflicted, as she fears that speaking up could damage the relationship between the two men, especially given the friend’s importance in her boyfriend’s progress.

At the same time, she expressed discomfort over the continued attention and uncertainty about how to handle it.

She said …

“My bf and I started dating in sch, he graduated and moved to another state to start his life but our relationship continued. We couldn’t see each other the first few months cuz he was living with his uncle(family house) while looking for both a job and money to get his own place.

When we eventually meet, it’s always financially draining for both of us cuz of lodging for days and all. We decided to not see for a while SO money will be enough to get his own place and I can also stay as long as I want since it’s not hotel. Here’s the thing, my bf meta friend at the gym

This friend is a typical friend turn brother to my bf. He’s financially stable and from a wealthy background.

He helped my bf with connection that gave my bf his current job, he has also helped him financially plus completing my bf rent. My bf tells me about how grateful he is for meeting him.

I always pray for this guy for putting my guy on even tho their friendship is barely two years. My bf finally got his own place last year, I visited and we set up the place. I didn’t meet this his friend cuz my bf and him meet daily at the gym so they rarely visit each other’s homes.

Now I have visited my bf for the 2nd time and I met his friend. We met cuz they had an event and my bf said I should follow. So he came to pick us, I wasn’t done with my makeup so he had to come in and wait and made jokes about women and late. My bf introduced me to him as fiancé not even gf.

He kept complimenting all through the event when my bf was not looking, it was really uncomfortable for me, he gave me his card to call him if I need anything and I declined politely and said that if I ever need to reach out to him I will tell my bf. I didn’t tell my bf cuz omo it’s cr@zy

The next Sunday he came to eat at our place, today he came to check on me in my bf house!! He knows my bf is at work and came to check on me, and talked if I would like a trip to capetown by June. He was talking to me like I’ma random single girl he met, and not his friend’s fiancée wth

I told him I was dizzy and needed sleep so he left. I feel so sad cuz telling my bf this can ruin their relationship and na my bf helper omo. My bf will be back from work by 7/8pm I’m thinking of telling him cuz I can’t keep this to myself. Why God why does this guy have to pick interest in me

Theres an investment my bf and him will do next month that my bf said will be very profitable and he might be able to get his first car this year. I’m so sad, should I keep quiet and avoid his advances so their friendship doesn’t crash since I’m even going back to sch soon.

What should I do???”

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