Lady blocks her friend for wishing her ex-boyfriend a ‘happy birthday’
A lady has sparked debate online after sharing her recent struggle with friendship and loyalty on X (formerly Twitter).
She questioned whether she had acted wrongly in a tricky situation involving her friend and the friend’s ex-boyfriend.
According to her post, the woman’s friend had been in a relationship with a man for three years. She explained that she knew the man personally, as all three were friends.
Interestingly, it was the friend who originally introduced her to the man at the beginning of the relationship.
Birthday Message Sparks Conflict
The woman revealed that her friend and her boyfriend eventually broke up last year, following an undisclosed issue that her friend had kept hidden.
While her friend has since started dating someone new, she said the ex-boyfriend has moved on as well, though she is unsure if he is seeing someone.
The conflict arose last month when the woman wished the ex-boyfriend a happy birthday on social media and her status.
Her friend reportedly saw the gesture and became upset, insisting that she should have stopped interacting with the man since the relationship had ended.
The woman defended herself, stating, “I can’t stop talking to him. She was the one who introduced us. He is my friend too.”
Friend Issues Ultimatum
The situation escalated when the friend called and demanded that the woman choose between her and the ex-boyfriend.
The woman said she refused to make a choice, leaving the decision to her friend. Since then, the friend has blocked her.
The post concluded with a heartfelt question to the online community: “Please, was I wrong to refuse making any choice?”
The story has sparked discussion among social media users, with many weighing in on the ethics of friendship, loyalty, and boundaries after a breakup.
