“Keep some mystery” — Man shares relationship advice for men
A man has shared what he describes as key insights for men who want to maintain respect and attention in relationships.
According to him, men should never be completely predictable to their partners. He explained that when a woman knows everything about a man, she can lose interest because the spark and sense of mystery disappear.
“When she knows 100% about you, she feels you’re predictable and loses interest”
Dear man, if you want a working relationship which has respect and attention, the attention that we all need as men, then your woman should never know 100% about you. When she knows everything about you, she feels you’re predictable, and she stops chasing you,” he said.
He emphasised the importance of surprises in maintaining excitement. Using the example of saving for a trip or buying a car, he explained that revealing plans only at the right moment keeps relationships dynamic and engaging.
Men, he said, should retain parts of their life and decisions as their own, creating a sense of independence and intrigue.
Mystery commands respect
“Power is contagious. The moment she figures out everything about you, she gets bored. Mystery is what makes a woman reverence you,” he added, drawing a comparison between human relationships and the reverence people have for God, who remains largely mysterious.
The man’s advice has sparked debate online, with some praising the tips as ways to strengthen attraction and respect, while others argue that transparency is just as important in a healthy relationship.
