“It is until you are a single mother that you will know there’s scarcity of good men” — Korra Obidi
Nigerian dancer and singer Korra Obidi has sparked widespread discussion on social media after sharing her views on relationships, single motherhood, and what she described as the growing scarcity of good men.
The outspoken entertainer made the remarks while reflecting on her personal experiences as a single mother and a public figure with international exposure.
Her comments have since generated mixed reactions online, with supporters and critics debating her perspective on modern dating and commitment.
Personal experience as a single mother
According to Korra, becoming a single mother significantly changed her understanding of relationships and the availability of dependable partners.
She suggested that the challenges women face in dating often become clearer only after they begin raising children alone.
“It is until you are a single mother that you will know there’s scarcity of good men,” she said, explaining that her experiences reshaped her expectations and observations about relationships.
Fame does not change relationship realities
Despite her popularity and international recognition, Korra noted that visibility and success do not necessarily translate into better relationship prospects.
She emphasised that being well-known has not shielded her from the realities many women face when searching for genuine partners.
“As popular and international as I am, I only see one or two good men in a year, and they are all taken,” she stated.
Debate over modern relationships
The comments have triggered conversations across social media platforms, with some users agreeing that emotional maturity and commitment are becoming rarer, while others argue that the issue cuts across both genders.
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“It is until you are a Single Mother that you will know there’s scarcity of Good Men. As popular and international that i am, i only see 1 or 2 good Men a year and they are all taken”
— Korra Obidi pic.twitter.com/JvRWRXfseR
— SKB (@seyikanbai) February 28, 2026