“Invest in yourself; we are judged by what we provide or have” – Do2dtun advises men

Media personality, Oladotun Kayode, better known Do2dtun has enlightened men on the need to invest in themselves even after marriage.

The on-air personality advised that in as much as men want the best for their spouse and children, they need to think of themselves.


Do2dtun, who is still battling custody of his children with his estranged wife, Taiwo Oyebanjo, noted the sad reality of life is that men are the least considered on the food chain.

Men should take care of themselves just as much as they take care of others, since they are perceived according to what they own or can provide.

He listed further actions that men should take, such as lowering their standards for their relationships and refraining from giving more than they can handle or maintain.

Internet users shared their bad partner experiences in the comment section.

Check out some reactions below…

ogu30 stated: “Bro I learnt the hard way too.. I love myself and enjoy myself the more . One day we will all die 🙏”

bolajisparks said: “I learnt the hard way. Now I know my worth and living life. May God grant us all the best of partners and family that will be filled with love no matter what. ❤”

realsam09 wrote: “My ex wife took my kids away for two years, after much effort I lock up. now them see the results on me, now them dey use the kids as a point of contact to get access to me 😂😂. This life just keep building yourself 👏🏽👏🏽”

funnyboneofficial quoted: “Don’t give what you can’t sustain 💯📌”