“I’m tired…” – 24-year-old lady announces end of her marriage

A 24-year-old Nigerian lady has stirred emotions online after announcing the end of her marriage in a heartbreaking video shared on social media.

The young lady revealed that she got married at the age of 19, but the union has now ended in separation.

According to her, the breakup happened at a time she least expected and deeply affected her mental health.

Emotional Video Sparks Reactions

In the viral video posted on TikTok, the lady broke down in tears as she spoke openly about her struggles.

She explained that she had kept her marital crisis private for a long time but decided to speak out because hiding it was slowing down her healing process.

The video quickly gained attention, with many social media users reacting with sympathy and concern.

Loss of Mother Compounds Pain

The lady disclosed that her separation happened just weeks before the death of her mother, making the situation even more devastating.

She revealed that her marriage officially ended on October 31, only 14 days before she lost her mum.

According to her, the emotional weight of losing her marriage and her mother at almost the same time pushed her into depression.

Battling Depression and Separation from Children

Identified as @nmezideborah on TikTok, the young woman said she has been battling postpartum depression, grief, and the pain of being separated from her children.

She explained that she currently lives with her youngest child, while longing to be reunited with her two older children, whom she misses deeply.

“I’m No Longer Married” – Lady Speaks Out

Opening up in tears, she said:

“My mom that should have been embarrassed is dead anyway. So I want to say this once and for all and be free. Okay I’m tired of hiding it and it’s delaying my healing process. So I just wanna say it once and for all. Okay I’m no longer married. My marriage my ended. I got separated on the 31st of October. 14 days before I lost my mom and that version of me or that chapter of me have closed.”

She added:

“So I’m singing out because I’m tired of people tagging me back to my past glory or trying to call me a pretender because I’m trying to sort for myself right now. You get it. I’m I’m going through. I’m battling depressions. I’m battling, I’m battling depressions. Postpartum depression. The death of my mom. The loss of marriage. This separation from my two other children.

I really miss them. I really miss them. So hiding this hiding this part of my life has been delaying my healing process. I’m almost beating depression but the fact that I keep hiding this particular my life keep delaying it. So I want to say it out here so that everyone can shame me once and for all. Like so that I can be done with all this. I can be done with all this emotion and everything. I’m going through enough already okay. So I’m ready to go through it once and for all. I just wanna make a name for myself and be able to see my two other children. Yes ah ah that marriage was my first ever relationship. Ah my first boyfriend at 17 years got married at 19 years and had three beautiful girls and I’m currently 24.

But that’s not the problem right. All I’m trying to say is I’m just with my little baby. She turned 5 months some days back. I actually left when she was 2 months. So what I just wish to see the other my children. So right now I’m just working on myself. Even though I’m I’m confused. I’m confused. I’m confused. I’m struggling. I don’t I don’t care. I just wanna put it out here please. I don’t want to be tagged to pass glory. I don’t want to be tagged to pass glory. That was a life that I thank God came through right. And yeah I am right now.

So I’m open to new opportunities. Open to new opportunities. I’m good at so many things. I’m good at so many things. I can set up supermarket from scratch to every other to any aspect of it. Like I’m a business guru. So I’m just I’m just looking. Open to new opportunities okay. So and for those who are telling their children to avoid me. Please avoid me oh. Yes your children should shall hear you and avoid me. You should avoid me. I just see. Thank you.”

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@nmezideborah

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