“I’m 32 and a virgin, I’m giving men 21 days to get married to me” — Comedian Phoebe
A video of a young lady identified as Phoebe has gone viral on X, formerly Twitter, after she issued a dramatic 21-day marriage ultimatum that has sparked widespread discussion online.
In the viral clip, Phoebe openly addressed men, urging them to marry her within 21 days as she expressed fear about ageing, menopause, and remaining unmarried.
21-Day Marriage Ultimatum
Speaking emotionally in the video, Phoebe said she is turning 32 this year and believes time is no longer on her side.
She said: “I’m turning 32 years old this year and I am already reaching menopause.”
She went on to issue a firm deadline, stressing that her words should be taken seriously.
Phoebe said: “Okay, I’m giving you people 21 days to get married to me. It not a threat but it’s a warning for real.”
Fear of Dying a Virgin
Phoebe revealed that she is still a virgin and does not want to remain so for the rest of her life.
She said: “I am a virgin and I don’t want to to die a virgin for crying out loud.”
She also reacted strongly to possible criticism about her past choices.
Phoebe stated: “It’s not funny anymore and no body should come and tell me that during my youthful age that I was refusing men.”
Reasons She Remained Unmarried
Explaining her situation, Phoebe insisted that she never rejected marriage offers.
She said: “I did not refuse any man, non of them wanted to marry me, they all wanted to do bad bad things and I said no, I had to keep the virginity.”
She added that her decision was based on her principles, not a lack of opportunity.
Open Plea to Men
Phoebe admitted she is now afraid of time slipping away.
She said: “But now, I’ve realised that I will soon reach 40 if care is not taken.”
Making an open appeal, she said: “You people should come and marry me, come and marry me.”
She lowered her expectations, saying: “I don’t even have spec at this point, anybody, rich, poor, tall, short, no not short oooh, rich, tall, handsome, anyone please at this point.”
Phoebe concluded with a final emotional plea.
She warned: “I seriously don’t want to die a virgin.”
She ended by repeating her ultimatum, saying: “21 days, if not you people will not like what you you will your eye to see.”
Watch the video here
" I am turning 32 years old and am close to menopause, i am giving men 21 days to get married to me"
– Phoebe pic.twitter.com/EvIbaOwj2V
— Metro Naija (@metronaija) February 4, 2026
