“If you’re not cheating on your wife what are you doing?” – Lady says in viral comment
A woman has stirred controversy after openly declaring that she does not value married men who remain faithful to their wives, describing such men as weak and overly controlled by women.
Claims about marriage and control
In her statement, the lady argued that fidelity in marriage is unnatural for men, insisting that having a side partner is a sign of masculinity rather than betrayal.
She dismissed men who commit to one woman as lacking authority in their homes and personal lives.
“I no dey value married men wey no get side chick. I no dey respect them. I dey see them as woman wrapper, man wey woman dey control,” she said.
Views on love and cheating
She further claimed that love and infidelity can coexist, suggesting that a man can genuinely love his wife while maintaining romantic relationships outside marriage.
According to her, cheating should not automatically be viewed as a lack of affection or commitment.
“If you’re not cheating on your wife, then what are you doing? If you don’t have a side chick, what are you doing?” she stated.
Advice to married men
The woman went on to argue that emotional attachment to a side partner should be formalised rather than hidden, advising men to take decisive steps if their feelings shift away from their spouses.
“You can love someone and still cheat on them. You fit love your wife still cheat on her, still get side chick wey you go even love more,” she said.
“If you don notice say you don dey love your side chick better, marry am o,” she added.
Her remarks present a stark challenge to widely held views on marital commitment and fidelity, raising questions about evolving perceptions of relationships, loyalty, and responsibility within marriage.
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Any married man that doesn’t have a side chic is a woman-wrapper pic.twitter.com/bhZebJnszv
— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) February 18, 2026
