“If you can’t handle the process, you don’t deserve the promise” – Lady advises women
A lady has gone viral on social media after sharing advice for women about patience, understanding, and support in relationships, especially with ambitious men.
The video was shared by @al_varo777 on microblogging platform X, formerly Twitter, and quickly gained widespread attention.
Viral Advice on Patience and Support
In the video, she emphasized that building a vision or pursuing long-term goals requires discipline, focus, and perseverance.
According to the lady, this can sometimes make a partner seem distant or unavailable.
She explained that many people want a man with vision, but not everyone has the patience to support him through the challenges that come with it.
“A man with a plan needs a woman who understands that it’s the process. Because everybody want a man with vision, but most don’t have the patience that comes with it because when he is building, it’s not always pretty. There’s gonna be late nights, quiet seasons, and times where look like nothing is working. But that’s what he means peace the most. You cannot pray for a man with purpose and then complain when he’s focused on his goals. Sometimes no, he is not being distant. He’s been disciplined. And the real woman knows the difference,” she said.
Support Goes Beyond Money
The young lady also highlighted that supporting a partner doesn’t always mean financial assistance.
“Support does not always mean spending money. Sometimes it means encouraging him, understanding him, and giving him space to build without pressure,” she stated.
Avoid Being a Distraction
She further noted that nagging or applying unnecessary pressure can distract a partner from their purpose.
“Because when a man has a plan and a woman who believes in it, that’s power. But when you’re busy nagging that’s a distraction. So if you say you want a man with vision, learn to value the process that comes with his purpose. Because once he wins, the one who stood beside him will eat with him,” she added.
The video has sparked discussion across social media, with many men taking to the comment section to share their thoughts.
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— 𝔸𝕝 𝕍𝕒𝕣𝕠 𝕏 (@al_varo777) February 16, 2026
