“If I were a man, I’d probably be the stingiest guy alive” – Lady says
A young lady has sparked widespread discussion online after sharing her views on the expectations men face in relationships, financial responsibilities, and gender roles.
The video, shared by X (formerly Twitter) user @chuksEricE, has gone viral, drawing thousands of reactions.
Men Shouldn’t Be Obligated to Give Out Their Money
In the video, the lady explained that if she were a man, she would be the stingiest guy on earth.
She questioned the traditional expectation that men should work hard and give their earnings to women.
She argued that financial responsibility should not automatically fall on men.
Criticism of Modern Marriage Expectations
She further criticized modern marriage arrangements where couples share responsibilities unequally.
In her words: “I’m sorry, but I just have to say this. If I were a guy, I would be the most stingy man on earth. Because what do you mean? I’d go and work for my money, get paid at the end of the month, and then give it to you because you’re a lady? Why should I give you my earnings? She gives me styles in bed, I am also giving her styles as well. Why should I pay for that? And then you eventually get married to somebody who claims to be an exposed woman. You marry this person, she probably doesn’t want children, doesn’t want to cook, she doesn’t do anything. Then the person tells you we are partners. What is it they call it now? The person says we just have to do our part. She would go and work, or she will sit down at home. When you come back from your job, as a man you make your own meal. Is it just crazy to me? It’s extremely crazy. I don’t want to be a man, because that is suffering. And hence to the men of this world, kudos to you people.”
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"If I were a man, I’d probably be the stingiest guy alive. What do you mean I should work hard for my money just to give it to you because you’re a woman?👀
-Lady says
pic.twitter.com/2nKxHJaPbP— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) February 13, 2026
