Former presidential aide and media personality, Reno Omokri has given a piece of advice to men who go into a sad state and weep when their girlfriend or lover turns ex.
The author stated it is a sign of weakness if the men in question begin to weep when their women leave them for another.
According to Reno, a man is allowed to weep over the death of loved ones as he gains respect, but weeping when rejected is a no no as it shows signs of weakness.
Taking to his Twitter handle, he wrote;
”When a man cries over the death of loved ones, he gains respect. But if he cries because a woman left him, or rejected his proposal, he projects weakness. How can you cry because of a girl? Yes, Christ wept. But where was He was when He wept? At Lazarus’s funeral!
Many were in agreement with his statement while few gave a counter opinion. one @Darlington_blog didn’t agree with Reno’s post, he replied saying;
”Until a good woman leaves you…men are human too”
Coming across the post, the Human Rights activist tried to shed more light on his statement.
According to him, if a man has made money and has self-control, no good woman would leave him.
Buttressing more on his point, he claimed that women leave men who are “clingy and needy, always professing love and writing poems to them and always following them like a puppet.”
In his words:
” Dear @Darlington_blog,
If a good woman leaves you, that is not enough reason to cry. Think of it this way: If you have $3.5 billion, and you lose $1 dollar, would you cry? There are 3.5 billions other women on Earth. Many of them will also be good. Instead of crying, go and find another one! In fact, don’t go and find another one. Rather, go and find a better one.
Develop yourself to the extent that it is women that should cry at the thought of losing you. Stop chasing them. Go and chase success. By the time you have a good command of business, coupled with self control, and have made money your servant instead of your master, no good woman will leave you!
But when you are so clingy and needy, and always kowtowing to her, and professing love, and writing poems, and following her around like a puppy, you will make it impossible for her to respect you, and she will pack her kaya and look for a real man who knows that he is the head in the relationship.”