“I vowed that her sickness would serve as a reminder” — Man who dated a church girl reveals what he discovered after breakup

A young man has sparked intense online debate after sharing a painful relationship story that ended with betrayal, regret, and a controversial spiritual decision made in anger.

The account, which has gone viral on social media forums, details years of love, sacrifice, heartbreak, and a final act many readers now question.

Love Story That Began at a Conference

According to the man, he met the woman in 2022 during the NASPA conference, and their friendship soon grew into a relationship.

He said he was 28 at the time, while she was 27, describing her as a quiet church girl with strong values and few friends.

He claimed he adjusted his lifestyle to align with her beliefs, hoping it would strengthen their bond and lead to marriage.

Breakup Over Faith and Finances

Nearly a year later, the woman reportedly ended the relationship, saying she felt guilty because it did not reflect her faith.

She also told him she believed he was not financially ready for marriage, a decision he said deeply hurt him but accepted.

Later, after securing a new job that took him to Accra and then Northern Ghana, he reached out to her again.

Shocking Turn and Reconciliation

The woman told him she was already seeing someone else and planned to marry soon, which left him shocked by how fast things changed.

Days later, she allegedly sent him a message from her fiancé, informing him that the wedding plans had been cancelled.

The man said she blamed her former fiancé for several issues, after which they began talking again and later resumed dating.

Financial Support and Renewed Promises

Before restarting the relationship, he said he clearly stated his intention to marry her, which she agreed to.

He explained that he supported her financially as a newly posted teacher, giving her 500 Ghana cedis weekly.

He also said he paid for her hair, electricity bills, and other needs for almost a year to help her settle.

Discovery of Infidelity

Trouble reportedly began during her June vacation, when she became distant, rude, and secretive about her phone calls.

After making enquiries, the man said he discovered she was cheating with someone from her past.

He claimed that whenever he confronted her, she responded with insults rather than remorse, deepening his emotional pain.

Controversial Spiritual Decision

Overwhelmed by anger and trauma, the man admitted seeking help from a Mallam in Northern Ghana.

In his words, “I vowed that her sickness would serve as a reminder of taking someone for granted.”

He later revealed that his two closest friends are now urging him to reverse whatever he did.