“I told him i wet the bed before marriage” – Woman shares emotional story of faith, love, and healing

A woman has elicited reactions online after sharing a deeply personal story about her marriage, vulnerability, and what she describes as healing through faith.

According to her, the journey began during the “talking stage” with her now-husband, whom she met during the COVID-19 lockdown.

Despite being in a long-distance relationship, he proposed to her over the phone.

However, she said she later felt compelled to disclose a sensitive personal struggle before moving forward.

Her words …

“When I was talking stage with my husband, he had proposed to me over the phone because we had long distance. We met during the lockdown. And one morning I woke up and the Lord said to me, tell him that you bed w£t. I’m like, there’s no way I’m going to say this to a guy. No way.

So I went to my sister’s house that day and I said to her, see, this guy is saying, God is saying to tell this guy that I bed w£t. I don’t know how I feel about that. And she said to me, If you tell him and he goes, good for you because he was never your husband. If you tell him and he stays, that’s your husband.

So I went back that day and I called him and I said to him, just want to let you know that if you want to marry me i need to be honest with the fact that since i was born i’ve been bedw£tting when babies stop i never stopped till my 20s and he said to me that’s not a problem that’s just a way for God to show His mighty hand in your life. i was like okay.

So every time I bed w£t, I would tell him. It was about every other night. It was so bad. I don’t want to go into all the emotional issues with bed w£tting. And we got married, guys. When we got married, I was still bedw£tting the hotel, our thing, like very embarrassing. My husband would look at me and say, don’t cry. I will wash it. He would take the bed sheet. He would wash it. He would sun the thing. When we were not living with the couple, he was avoiding for the couple, for the wife’s husband to notice that I was bedwetting. One day I was crying so much. And he came to me and he said, are you tired of bedw£tting? I said, yes. Yes, I’m tired. He said, I’m going to pray for you. You’re going to feel fine. And I said, okay. And he prayed for me with authority. It was two months after being married. I will never forget. I slept at night. Nothing. The night later, nothing.

One week, nothing. One month, no bedw£tting. One year, no bedwetting. Five years now, no bedw£tting. Why am I telling you this story? Life is too tough to do it with somebody who just likes you. You know, he likes me, she likes me. If that’s how you want to do marriage, you better go and deepen your roots. Roots. When you do not just marry somebody for feelings, you marry them for authority. Many other times I have been in a position that my husband has brought me out through prayer. So when you hear people saying that, oh, they don’t marry for love. It’s not that we don’t love our partner. We marry for the most important thing. Then we fall in love. Then you fall in love later. Not the first.”

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“During our talking stage, my husband proposed over the phone. I told him about my lifelong struggle with bedwetting, and he accepted me without hesitation. Even in marriage, it continued until one day he prayed for me. For five years now, I’ve been free.”

— Lady says. pic.twitter.com/AcuzyNwZXI

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) March 28, 2026