“I need a man, i want to get married” — Single mother outlines conditions for relationship

A woman has stirred reactions online after openly expressing her desire to remarry, while outlining specific conditions for any potential partner.
The woman, who identified herself as a single mother, said she is ready to settle down but wants clarity from the outset.
“I need a man, I want to get married, I’m tired of being a single mum,” she said, adding that her current situation has made her more intentional about relationships.
Conditions for potential partner
The woman stated that any man interested in her must be willing to accept her children and take on the responsibilities that come with it. “Before you come to me, I’m a single mother with children. If you can cope,” she said.
She also specified personal preferences, noting that she would not consider men from a particular state.
In addition, she emphasised financial stability as a key requirement. “Please have money to maintain me… you can see that I need maintenance, hair and everything,” she added.
Mixed reactions trail statement
Her remarks have generated mixed reactions on social media, with some praising her honesty and clarity, while others criticised her conditions as demanding.
The discussion has sparked broader conversations about expectations in relationships, especially involving single parents.
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I need a man, I want to get married, I’m tired of being a single mumbefore you come to me I’m a single mother with children, if you can cope, also if you’re from Akwa Ibom don’t come close, and please have money to maintain me, you can see me that i need maintaince hair and… pic.twitter.com/nQVXMbncN5
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) March 23, 2026



