“I keep saying this, don’t give your man money” — Lady warns women
A lady has set social media abuzz after advising women never to give their men money.
In a viral video, she emphasised: “I keep saying this, don’t give your man one naira, don’t give your man one naira. The only time you should give your man your coin, your piece is when he has invested so much in you.
“What I mean invested, is invested so much, start up a business for you, set up properties for you. Then he is probably asking for a loan, and the loan he should be asking should be 0.001 percent of whatever he has done for you.”
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“Don’t give men your money” — lady warns her gender
— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) February 19, 2026
Public Reactions
The video sparked a wave of reactions online. Imoh Titus wrote: “She’s right, a man must know when to receive money from those gender.. they will save it in a folder and remind with this statement ‘after all I have done for you’. Untop 5k.”
Temitope added: “Why should you give men your money when they are not your husband. Only give your husband money.”
Yusuf commented: “Ordinarily, men don’t even expect money from you. If you are not coming with peace, you are a headache and burden.”
Tonah shared: “If a woman gives a man money she becomes his ATM and he upgrades to a better model. Same way men become walking wallet and get replaced. Both sides toxic.”
Agaji weighed in: “That’s her business, what’s the percentages of women that give men money sef. Majority of you guys are natural unkind and always a recipient.”
The debate continues as users discuss boundaries, financial responsibility, and relationships in modern dating.
