“I became lesbian after I caught my husband sleeping with my nanny” — Lady

A woman has shared her emotional journey online after discovering her husband was having an affair with their nanny, a betrayal that led to the collapse of her marriage and a dramatic change in her lifestyle.

In a lengthy post on Facebook, the woman explained how the painful discovery pushed her into divorce and later into a new social circle that she says changed her life in unexpected ways.

From Betrayal to Divorce

According to her account, she caught her husband in bed with their nanny, a moment she described as the breaking point in their marriage.

Unable to forgive the betrayal, she filed for divorce and chose to walk away from the relationship. The experience, she said, left her emotionally broken and searching for comfort.

She later joined a group of women on Facebook, where she opened up about her failed marriage. Members of the group encouraged her to forget her ex-husband and focus on rebuilding her happiness.

A New Lifestyle

The woman said the group welcomed her warmly and helped her regain confidence. They began travelling together, attending social events, and spending more time enjoying life.

However, she claimed she later realised that many of the women in the circle were divorced and living what she described as a lesbian lifestyle. She alleged that they introduced her to practices and relationships she had never considered before.

Although she initially felt supported, she admitted she struggled to fully embrace the lifestyle. She said she often felt uncomfortable and conflicted about the changes in her personal life.

Regret and Reflection

In her post, the woman also alleged that some members of the group were funding their activities through child support payments from their former partners.

Over time, she said she became increasingly bitter and began questioning her decisions. She now believes she may have acted out of pain rather than clarity.

The woman concluded by admitting she wants to reconcile with her ex-husband but does not know how to begin the process.