“He treats me better than my husband” – Married lady cries out over intimate gifts from male colleague
A married Nigerian lady has stirred reactions online after opening up on her growing closeness with a male colleague at her workplace.
The young woman revealed that she got married last year to the man who sponsored her education and now works as a government teacher.
A New Environment
She explained that she was recently posted to a new school where she teaches Geography, and adjusting to the new environment has not been easy.
However, she found comfort in a senior colleague, a Biology teacher who has worked at the school for six years.
From Help to Emotional Comfort
According to her, the colleague became very supportive from the start, helping her settle in, guiding her, and keeping her company so she wouldn’t feel alone.
“I Feel Safer With Him”
The teacher admitted that she now feels more comfortable and emotionally safe with her colleague than with her own husband.
She added that she enjoys his company and finds it easier to open up to him about personal matters.
Gifts That Changed Everything
Initially, the colleague gave her simple gifts like food and small items.
But recently, the nature of the gifts shifted to more intimate items such as underwear, bras, and perfumes; a move that left her uneasy and confused.
Struggling With Boundaries
Despite her discomfort, she said she finds it difficult to reject the gifts because of how kind and supportive the colleague has been since her arrival.
Sharing her dilemma, she said:
“So I got married last year to the man who sponsored my education. Have no kids yet though. Thanks to him, today I work as a government teacher in a secondary & high school. I actually just got recruited to this school where I teach Geography.
But please, I’m confused. There’s this particular guy, actually a male colleague of mine. He has been working here as a Biology teacher for 6 years. Since I arrived & started work, he has been so nice to me, guiding & showing me around, buying me gifts too, and keeping me company so I don’t feel alone since I’m new. We got so close after a month. I don’t know, but I just really feel so comfortable & safe with him, even more than my husband. I love his company. If I’m to be honest, I feel like I can share & tell him everything.
Even my husband doesn’t get me gifts like this guy does. He is such a kind & gentle man, I must comment, he truly knows how to treat a lady but something about his behavior actually changed recently. Which leaves me confused. He switched from food gifts & started getting me underwear, bras, and perfumes. Even on ‘Teachers Day’ he bought me same gifts. This has actually been going on for about 2 weeks now. Please people, this keeps me wondering if it’s okay that I keep collecting these gifts. Considering the fact that I’m a married woman.
Truth is, we’ve been so close, and I don’t know how to go about rejecting these gifts since he is actually doing it with pure intentions, with no strings attached, and he’s been so nice to me ever since I got here. I plead for your advice & guidance.”
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