“He says I’m too successful, so he’s taking a second wife for balance” — Woman laments

A woman has shared a painful revelation about her marriage after her husband informed her of his intention to take a second wife, citing her career focus as the reason.

The disclosure has sparked debate about gender roles, marital expectations, and the treatment of successful women in relationships.

A conflict between success and tradition

Speaking tearfully to a neighbour, she recounted the shocking moment:

“Neighbor, my husband called a family meeting yesterday. I thought we were discussing the kids’ school fees. Instead, he sat me down in front of his brothers and told me he’s taking a second wife. His reason? He said I’ve become ‘too focused on my career’ and he needs someone who is ‘homebound’ to balance the house.”

She detailed the sacrifices she made for their home and family, highlighting the stark injustice of her husband’s decision:

“I’m the one who paid for the renovation of this house. I’m the one who bought the car he’s currently driving to go and see this other woman. He told me if I’m truly a ‘submissive’ wife, I should welcome her like a sister. If I complain, it means I’m trying to ‘compete’ with his authority.”

Her story raises questions about how women’s professional success is sometimes viewed as a threat in marital relationships, particularly where patriarchal expectations are strong.

Emotional toll on families

The woman confessed her heartbreak, asking: “How do you welcome a woman into a house you built with your own sweat? Is this what they mean by ‘for better for worse’?”

Her experience highlights the emotional strain of polygamy and unequal power dynamics in marriages.

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