“He played…” – Lady narrates why she ghosted after 2-months talking stage after visiting
A Nigerian lady has sparked dating conversations online after sharing why she completely cut off a man she had been talking to for two months.
In a viral video trending on X (formerly Twitter) shared by @Damiadenuga, she revealed they had been chatting consistently and even planned a sleepover.
She said she clearly told him she disliked scary movies and preferred calm, feel-good films.
However, when she finally visited, the man ignored her preference and put on a horror movie anyway.
She described the moment as uncomfortable and unsettling, especially since she was a guest in his space.
The lady said the action made her feel unheard and disrespected, noting that hosting someone should come with basic consideration for their comfort.
“He knew I don’t like horror films, but he still played one and was laughing and enjoying it. That told me everything I needed to know,” she said.
The story triggered mixed reactions online. While some women supported her decision, saying it showed strong boundaries, others felt she overreacted since they were only at the talking stage.
One user commented, “If someone ignores your boundaries this early, it only gets worse later.” Another wrote, “It may look small, but respect starts with listening.”
Despite the divided opinions, the lady maintained that small actions reveal bigger intentions, and ignoring simple boundaries was enough reason for her to walk away.
Watch video below…
Do you think she did the right thing if she truly likes the guy? pic.twitter.com/vWNSqDAQab
— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) February 3, 2026
