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“Don’t rush to move in early — You don’t know him yet,” Michelle Obama advises women

Grateful OgunjebeFeb 13, 2026
“Don’t rush to move in early — You don’t know him yet,” Michelle Obama advises women

Former U.S. First Lady Michelle Obama has urged women to be cautious about moving in with a partner early in a relationship, highlighting the importance of patience and observation.

Speaking on the IMO podcast, she stressed that initial attraction or financial stability shouldn’t drive such a major decision.

Former First Lady highlights risks of rushing

“Even if he has a great job or looks perfect on paper, you simply don’t know him well enough in the first months,” Michelle explained.

She pointed out that strong physical attraction can be misleading. “Lust at first sight is real, but love develops over time. You need to see how he handles life’s challenges before committing.”

Attraction alone isn’t enough for a lasting relationship

Michelle also emphasised the benefits of waiting to move in together. “There are many situations and tests in a relationship that reveal compatibility. Moving in too early can backfire. It’s better to let the relationship mature naturally.”

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The advice comes amid ongoing discussions about modern dating norms, where cohabitation is often seen as a step before marriage.

Michelle’s words reinforce the idea that understanding a partner’s personality, habits, and values is essential before sharing a home.

By giving couples time to learn about each other, she suggests relationships are more likely to be stable and fulfilling, rather than being rushed by convenience or external pressures.

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Grateful OgunjebeFeb 13, 2026