“Do women worry about their performance in bed or they just blame men for everything?” — Lady asks
A social media post by a woman questioning bedroom performance has sparked widespread debate online, drawing strong opinions from users with different views on intimacy and responsibility.
The post, shared on X (formerly Twitter), quickly gained traction as many users weighed in on whether bedroom performance is a shared concern or something women ignore.
The Post That Sparked the Debate
In her post, the lady openly questioned common assumptions around intimacy and blame in relationships.
She wrote: “Do women also worry about their performance in bed or they just blame men for everything?”
The statement triggered thousands of reactions, with many users responding honestly, bluntly, and sometimes harshly.
Public Reactions Pour In
CityBoy wrote: “Very few do, one of the reason for many silent breakup.”
Victor said: “Some people believe women don’t worry about performance at all, they think the pressure is on men, and when things go wrong, the blame goes to the man.”
Paparazzi commented: “Little secret: all these girls una dey see wey dey marry so most of them performance for bed na top notch na why dem go secure them 💍. Lesson: Up your performance today ✨️”
Diana-Abasi wrote: “A lot of women just assume performance evaluation should only be done on men. They don’t care.”
Topnotch said: “Many ladies are like dead bodies in bed they may just have fine body to interest the man but then ones it’s time the practically di3d.”
Chozen argued: “But that’s a responsibility for men.”
Damoah added: “They blame men for not even brushing their (own) teeth since morning.”
Mveloh concluded with humour, saying: “They don’t worry about performance they worry about the cookie delivering.”
